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Neuro Linguistic Programming is the study of how each
individual makes sense of his/her world uniquely through different
personality patterns and sensory filters. It is used to describe the
fundamental dynamic between our mind, body,
emotions and behaviour.
Why the name?
Neuro – Our neurological system not only regulates how our
bodies function, it also defines how our sensory systems shape our
perceptions of the world
and our responses to it.
Linguistic – How we use language to order our thoughts, and communicate.
Programming – This relates to our tendency to habituate behaviour. We all
have many ‘programmes’ that are used systematically by our unconscious
to run much of our behaviour.
Our memories, beliefs, values, favoured sensory system and personality traits
have formed our unique model of the world. We use our internal model to
make sense of the world around us. If we think our model is the same as everyone
else's,
it will have a
profound
effect
on
our
thoughts
and behaviours, and our relationships with others.
By understanding the structure of our model we can identify negative
thought patterns that inhibit us (and change them); by understanding
the structure
of someone else’s model we can assist them in doing the same thing;
or use it to improve our relationship with them, whether in a business
or personal
context.
NLP was developed in the ‘70’s by Richard Bandler and John Grinder.
It is the end product of a curiosity that began by asking “How do
people do that?”
Bandler and Grinder started by looking closely at how people who were excellent
in their fields achieved the results they did. They noticed certain patterns
of human sameness and difference, which could be used by others to improve
individual performance in many areas.
As a result of this initial curiosity a large number of techniques have been
developed which can be used by people to improve their lives, and the lives
of people around them.
Think about this:
• Doing something well, consistently, is not an accident, it is a process
• Doing something badly, consistently, is not an accident, it is a process
NLP provides the tools to understand these processes and develop the individual’s
ability to adapt whatever they do that does not bring them the results
they want, into processes that do.
So how can it help?
It has been used to improve performance in sport; academic performance; sales;
therapy, and self-development. It has the potential to improve any situation
where communication is a factor, whether between you and someone else, or
just with yourself.
Using NLP in conjunction with cognitive hypnotherapy has many benefits.
The relationship between therapist and client is crucial in whether you can
help or not. Not only is it essential for the therapist to understand and
communicate
clearly with the client, but also helping them to understand how they communicate
with themselves and others is also invaluable in affecting change.
It is a great tool, not only for enabling us to become more aware of the
thoughts that direct our actions, but also to become attuned to the ways
others seek to
influence us.
For health, if you accept the premise that the mind and the body communicate
with one another, then the quality of the thoughts you have must impact
on the stress levels within your body. If you are thinking negatively,
or view
the world
through a filter of limiting beliefs, then the body’s response to
this places an unsustainable burden on the immune system, which can ultimately
lead to illness and susceptibility to disease. In that respect, your thoughts
create
the conditions necessary for your ill-health. Releasing these negative
thought
patterns and replacing them with positive ones, creates the conditions
necessary to re-build your health. This is not a replacement for conventional
medicine,
it is complementary to it.
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